http://kalon-women.com/5195/old-sex-%e2%80%93-the-final-frontier/ Join a community of women 40+ who are living their passion everyday Sun, 13 Jun 2010 19:49:19 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 http://kalon-women.com/5195/old-sex-%e2%80%93-the-final-frontier/comment-page-1/#comment-527 Guy Van Dusen Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:37:45 +0000 http://kalon-women.com/?p=5195#comment-527 Something that I've noticed since re-joining the dating scene that wasn't mentioned in your article is the fact that as we age we recognize that real beauty is an inner thing and a sincere smile, matching personality, sense of humour and good conversation can be as much a turn on as a georgous body. Of course, the physical attraction needs to be there but I find that we're more forgiving of someone else's physical flaws as well as our own. I vividly recal the insecurity I suffered because I perceived myself as too skinny, (20 lbs underwieght) then again when I went 20 lbs overweight and I begrudge the worry, time and concern that was spent on what I now know was trivial. Now I apply the phylosphy of one of my earlier heros, "I yam what I yam". Popeye, circa late 50's. This is just a point that I've noticed and am not sure whether it's valid for others our age but thought I'd mention it. It's also nice to know that your "just getting started" and I don't think your the only one our age that is thinking the same way. Live long and have great sex. Something that I’ve noticed since re-joining the dating scene that wasn’t mentioned in your article is the fact that as we age we recognize that real beauty is an inner thing and a sincere smile, matching personality, sense of humour and good conversation can be as much a turn on as a georgous body. Of course, the physical attraction needs to be there but I find that we’re more forgiving of someone else’s physical flaws as well as our own. I vividly recal the insecurity I suffered because I perceived myself as too skinny, (20 lbs underwieght) then again when I went 20 lbs overweight and I begrudge the worry, time and concern that was spent on what I now know was trivial. Now I apply the phylosphy of one of my earlier heros, “I yam what I yam”. Popeye, circa late 50’s. This is just a point that I’ve noticed and am not sure whether it’s valid for others our age but thought I’d mention it. It’s also nice to know that your “just getting started” and I don’t think your the only one our age that is thinking the same way. Live long and have great sex.

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